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This is what you do, if he stopped chasing you, it changes everything. It makes it so much easier for you to be in your own frame, not to feel like you need that love from other people, and it helps them also see the value in you.
When it comes to attracting love, it can at many times be a cat and mouse game where someone is running and then someone else is chasing, and then if that person stops running, then it's like somebody else, they start looking elsewhere, and then this person starts chasing again.
So, it tends to go back and forth. Now, the first reason someone may have stopped chasing you, is simply this. You stopped running, and think about it. If you had a dog and you started chasing the dog, the dog out of a natural response will normally begin to run away from you.
Even if like there's no reason for you to chase him you just start playing with him, try that. Go, like, oh, I wanna get you, and then you start chasing them. They start running from you
because they play according to the game that you're giving them. Now, in a similar way when it comes to love, dating, relationships, it can be very similar where people are responding based on the energy we are putting out.
Now, one of the things could be is the energy dynamic that could have been at play when you started dating, was that he was pursuing something for you. So, there was some type
of pursuing energy, some type of desire, maybe some type of seeking validation, some type of seeking something that this person may want, and what happens is then, there's a running away from it, and it's, like, a game where they want to attain whatever it is.
And what happens is if you stop running, they may then, either, get what they want, or they may not be interested because the game is not being played. Now, here's the shadow side
of this that I wanna share, and it's that if people feel like they have to play games, in a way, a lot of times in the love dating niche, when people are trying to attract love, what they're really addicted to is dopamine.
They're addicted to the dopamine, the wanting to seek the validation, wanting to seek the approval, and that's why they're playing games. The challenge is that when people play games it's kind of childish, kind of creepy. Think about it.
If you have someone that's a hunter that goes out, and I know some of you vegans out there are, like, I don't eat, I don't hunt animals. I get it. But imagine someone's going out to hunt and they want to get food, you know?
Most true, I guess you could say, if this were a masculine, feminine polarity game, which is not gender specific in a way where it's like, even if you're in a homosexual relationship, it still applies.
Masculine, feminine energy is in everything. It's, like, one of the hermetic principles, but somebody that's, like, grounded in themselves that goes out to hunt, they aren't just trying to play, right? Like, play, let's play a game, yay! This is so much fun.
Even though some people might do that for sport, but if somebody, especially, like, a masculine energy goes out on a, with intention, there's nothing wrong really with pursuing someone else. If someone is pursuing you, that can be healthy, but someone chasing you, that's different. That's kind of creepy.
But there is a masculine energy that could be there when it comes to the pursuing that is very purpose driven, that is very sure of what they want, that is going after some type of courting, I guess you could say, but the chasing is, kind of, like this energy chasing the dopamine, chasing the validation, chasing the approval.
Now, remember this when it comes to attracting love. The person that is the least attached has the magnetic pull. Let me say that again. The person that is the least attached to outcome, that is the least attached to what you do, to the least attached to anything has more magnetic pull in the dynamic.
So, one of the things you wanna become aware of is how attached are you? Are you attached to what someone else is thinking about you, feeling about you, responding to you, texting you? Because if so, that is depolarizing the magnetic pull, and they answer to this isn't to, okay, I'm going to let go because then they're gonna be more attracted.
The key is to have awareness, and the awareness is the transformation. 90% of all transformation is awareness, and if you become aware of the shadow sides of yourself, you're then gonna have more power because a lot of times what people are chasing, what people are running from, they're running from themselves, they're running from the energy
that already exists inside.
And look at this belief altogether. The only thing that makes letting go hard is the strong attachment we have to the belief that something's gonna bring us pleasure.
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